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To all the women out there who are still trying to figure out what is expected of them,
Who are bending themselves into incredible uncomfortable shapes to try to fit in,
To be accepted,
To feel like they belong,
Who are feeling like no matter what they do or say they will never be enough…
I say: Come home! Come to your own self, to the essence of YOU!
To all the women who are lost,
Who don’t know who they are anymore,
Who are in transition, at the crossroads.
Where what was doesn’t work anymore and what will be is not clear yet…
I say: You are exactly where you are supposed to be in this moment. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and feel your heart beat.
To all the women experiencing intense grief for the lost dreams,
The lost years of saying no to themselves constantly while saying yes to everyone and everything else,
And for the loss of your people …
I say, let yourself be held by Mother Earth, She knows what grief feels like.
To all the women who are holding themselves back for fear of ruffling any feathers,
To not shake the boat, to not make the people around them uncomfortable…
I say STOP! Create the waves and surf on them!
Hiding time is over!
Your color and your own unique texture are essential in the weaving of the grand tapestry of life!
To all the women who are waiting,
Waiting for things to happen,
Waiting for dreams to manifest,
For things to change,
For people to show up,
For kids to grow up before doing something for themselves,
I ask: What can you DO now that will move you toward THE life you want to live? Sometime, waiting is what is needed,
But many times waiting is what makes you go down the rabbit hole.
You’ve done the best that you could!
Remember that you benefited from the choices you made, and it worked for a while.
It’s ok if it doesn’t work anymore.
I invite you to allow the change,
Allow yourself to grow into your own self.
Feel the call of your soul emerging.
I bet that you’ve been hearing it for a while.
It might be time to say yes to it!
Remember the power that lies within you…
The power to create a fulfilling and exciting life,
The power to not know and be at peace with that,
The power of your intuition, your inner guidance,
The power of all the women before you and the ones that are coming…
You have great power sister!
Do not shy away from it…
it might scare you…
I hear you…
You can learn how to be with it,
You can learn what it feels like to embody it,
To give language and image to it.
In the next few days, ask yourself: What is my next step?
And be aware of what you hear,
What you read,
What comes to your awareness.
DO NOT dismiss a message or a sign thinking “Oh it’s just a coincidence”.
You’ve asked for answers, they will come.
Then, get wild and take one action inspired by the answers!
Are you facing a crossroad? Have you been considering a couple of choices and both seem to be good for you but you need to make a move and don’t know which way to go? Are you afraid to make a mistake and choose the wrong option?
First of all, consider this: What if you couldn’t make a mistake? As an Intentional Creativity® facilitator, one of the powerful teachings I share with my clients is that there is nothing you can do wrong. You can’t choose the wrong color, the wrong paintbrush, and you can’t paint the wrong strokes. True that your inner critic will try to convince you otherwise, doesn’t mean it’s right.
By "trying on" this new way of operating, you learn to quiet down the Inner Critic and turn your attention to your Inner Compass to receive guidance.
Practicing accepting that you can’t make a wrong choice in front of the canvas
helps you build your trust muscle and strengthen your capacity
to see new perspectives which you then bring in your every day life.
Second, if you believe that you have a large invisible team of beings ready to offer support, you can ask them for specific signs to help you in your decision making. I’ve used this technique many times and when I had the courage to follow through, I haven’t been disappointed.
The special trick to this technique is that it needs to be specific. Ask to see something specific that you wouldn’t expect to see and within a time frame.
For example, my daughter was hesitating between 2 majors in College. She felt that she was receiving signs that guided her both ways, but she had to make a choice. So I taught her this technique.
1- She got clear on the life she wanted to experience after College,
2- She chose a specific sign: a butterfly,
3- Within a timeframe: 24 hours
4- Meaning: Seeing a butterfly within 24 hours would mean that option A would be the most in alignment with who she is and her dream for her life after College. And it had to come from her… not me pointing out the butterfly to her 😉
And just to be clear, we were on a 12 hour road trip in the middle of winter in Canada so the chances to see a butterfly were zero to none. Well, within 4 hours, she was watching Netflix on her phone when she saw 2 butterflies on the wallpaper in the background of the scene. And after that, it was a butterfly sign after the other. She said she’s never seen that many butterflies in such a short period of time, not even in the summer. She had her answer. She changed her major and she is sooooo happy she did. She feels so much better and she is so enthusiastic with the possibilities.
If you think that you see the signs because you’ve asked for it and therefore your awareness is just heightened to see these things specifically, I can tell you that often, when I desperately wanted to see the sign I was asking for, I didn’t see any. I was looking hard but it just wasn’t the time to choose that option.
If you don't receive the sign that confirms option A, try the same technique to see if option B is the best choice. If you don't see signs that confirm Option B as a good option, maybe it's time to explore other avenues and wonder about new possibilities. I have some tips to do so but it will be for another post.
Try out this technique and let me know about your experience, I would love to hear!
Being aware of your thoughts and feelings is empowering, but even if you live your life aware and awake, you still get stuck in old stories, fears, and self-doubts once in a while.
The gift is that now you know what is going on. However, sometimes, it's more difficult than others to shift your inner conversation on your own.
That’s why it’s crucial to have a couple of people who you can turn to, to whom you can freely ask what you need at that moment. Sometimes, they can just be a space where you can be sad, where you are heard and witnessed. Sometimes, they can help you remember who you really are and what you are up to. Sometimes, they can help you to see a new perspective on a given situation.
I invite you to assess who is on your team to shift your energy faster.
Then, contact them and create the space between you two where you commit to ask for what you need and to be there to empower each other. It’s an opportunity to create a new kind of relationship with yourself and these special friends. Share about your intention and what you want to create with them. By doing this, you then become the deliberate creator of your life.
If no one around you can fulfill your need of an empowering teammate, call one into your life. Use the Universe to support you in attracting the person you need. While that person is preparing to come into your life, do what's in this blog post: What to Do While the Universe is Orchestrating the Manifestation of Your Dreams?
You don’t need to dwell in the mud. There is nothing wrong with asking for a hand… on the contrary, it is grand!
I am an intuitive artist, Intentional Creativity ® Coach, Color of Woman Teacher, certified law of attraction coach, wife, mom and so much more! I love all things spiritual. I believe that the questions are much more valuable than the answers and it's why I live in a constant inquiry. Welcome in my world. Get a cup of coffee and spend some time dreaming with me.